Planning a wedding is mostly one of the most joyous times in a couple's life. However, amidst the excitement and anticipation, it's not uncommon for disagreements and fights to arise. Common topics like the budget, and guest list or small things like the time of the pheras can also become a huge issue between couples. That’s why today we are exploring some of the common wedding planning fights couples face and how to overcome them below!

Here’s How You Can Overcome Common Wedding Planning Fights

1. Style & Theme of Functions

Choosing a wedding style and theme is a deeply personal decision that reflects the couple's tastes and preferences. But, disagreements can arise when one partner envisions a traditional theme while the other wants a more casual, bohemian vibe.

Tip: Find a style and theme that reflects both of your personalities and creates a cohesive vision for the wedding day. Remember, it ain’t a wedding without a little compromise!

2. Wedding Vendor Selection

If you’re opting for the same photographer or caterer, fights can arise over having different preferences and priorities. While one may prefer things according to the wedding vendors, the other might want to personalise the experience as much as possible; which will lead to a fight between the couple.

Tip: To avoid vendor selection fights, it's important to research options together, discuss your wishes, and make decisions collaboratively.

3. Size of the Guest List

Many times we’ve heard couples bicker over the size of the guest list for the wedding day. While one person may want an intimate wedding, the other person and their family may want a grand wedding.

Tip: Be respectful of each other’s wishes and come to a common ground. Reduce some people and keep the important ones. Remember, it's ultimately about celebrating your love with those who matter most!

4. Family Dynamics

Fights have always occurred when the couple is dealing with overbearing in-laws or with controlling aunts. Well-meaning family members may offer unnecessary advice or try to take control of some aspects of the wedding which can lead to tension between the couple.

Tip: It's important to establish boundaries and communicate your wishes. Remember that it's your day, and ultimately, the decisions should reflect your desires as a couple.

5. The Budget

The most common source of tension between the couple during wedding planning is budgeting. Not everyone’s pocket can allow them to spend exuberantly which is why differences can very easily occur, leading to heated discussions about priorities and financial constraints.

Tip: Sit down together and create a realistic budget based on your combined resources. Be transparent about your financial situation and be willing to compromise on non-negotiables.

6. Taking Out Frustration on Each Other

So many times the fight is not even between the couple, but the couple ends up fighting due to the frustration around them. Arguments may erupt over opinions, miscommunication and lack of understanding.

Tip: Be extremely patient and understanding around each other. Try listening to the other person first and then giving advice/suggestions.

7. Post-Wedding Planning

One of the most common topics for a fight between the couple, post-wedding planning includes topics such as where to live, how to handle finances, how to handle everyday living, where to go for the honeymoon, etc.

Tip: Be open and honest with each other, right from the beginning, about your hopes, dreams, and expectations for the future, and work together to create a plan that aligns with both of your goals.

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